I'm Mystiblu... that's my magical/Spiritual name. My real name is Fran Hafey. I'm the creator of this site, my yahoo groups and a Writer and Author, with help from Spirit/God, my many teachers, guides/Spirit helpers, Angels, my husband and guardian, family, wise souls, my Twinflame, friends and mentors that have always given me good advice and love along the way. I am here to help others to find their personal power and to follow their Souls guidance. I help others to heal, to find the love and power that's deep within and to find peace in all things. I help them increase positive energy in their lives which in turn attracts all good things. That doesn't mean we won't have hardships, because we will, but I help you learn to trust your Higher self and have faith. The path I follow is wide and I believe in many things. I feel very close and bonded with the earth and elementals, trees, the fae, angels and not taking anything for granted, but finding magic all around me. For a long time, people would ask me..."what are you or what do you believe," when they would see my webpage or when I would speak to them. They could see or hear I was different and ya know, I never really had a good answer, but one day, (April 2006) I was given the wonderfully simple, starring in my face, truth/answer. I am a Mystic. I was using the name "Mistyblue" long before I was told to change it to "Mystiblu" and begin my deeper spiritual journey. I'm gifted with Empathic, Intuitive, Sensitive abilities. With these abilities, I offer Spiritual Consulting, Counseling, Readings and I'm a Visionary Writer. I'm here in this life to tell the World to help save Mother Earth, all living things and to love one another, regardless of our differences and choice of beliefs. I realized recently that perhaps its not the planet that needs saving as much as humans and helping them to change how they think and act. When that happens, then the earth will be ok too. I'm also a lightworker and Ancient Earth Healer, helping our planet and consciousness in many ways. Some call me Teacher, Sage, Maven and I work closely with energy.
For my Intuitive Guidance Readings I use Angel, Faery and Tree Magick cards mostly. The cards help with direction and focus. I work with Crystals and stones, positive energies and intent and receive help from my Spirit guides, Angels, faeries and other helpers too. I'm an Ordained Minister, no denomination, just sharing love and peace to all and enjoy working with people. I've recently completed a course in Relaxation Therapy and will be utilizing what I've learned into my Counseling and healing sessions here and at my Healing Center and into Meditation classes when I have a physical place to do this, which I pray is soon. I'll be opening the Spiritual Healing Light Center/Retreat for the Body, Mind and Soul, one day or at least a place to do more of my work, but I haven't been directed to where or when yet, so when I know, I will surely announce it!! Your faith in me means a lot. I feel it getting closer, day by day!
My first book, "A Season of Love" is finally finished and published! I have others in the wind also, just waiting for me to complete them. I do hope you'll check my book page, "A Season of Love" and order one of your own. I'll even sign it! Thank you for your faith and believing along with me, that Miracles can happen and they do everyday! This is a project of love, and it was completed in perfect Divine timing! Thank you for your loving support!
I'm an Aquarian and my Birthday is February 13th and for my Astrologist friends, I was born at 8:34 a.m. in 1961 in Louisville Kentucky. My parents moved to Virginia when I was about six months old and this is where I've lived most of my life. I felt "different" from my family, like I didn't fit, even though there was love, there were mixed messages from our parents about life, but never about what was right and wrong. I was always close with nature, animals and I loved to read and write even at an early age. I felt comfort when I was in nature amongst the trees, grass and flowers. My best friend was my dog and cat. I learned to play the flute at about age ten and it helped me alot, getting into music and creating. I learned early not to trust people. In my early teens I felt I was alone, that no one understood me, which may not be so typical, but this went very deep and I asked my parents for help. They clearly didn't understand and so I received no help at all. I believe this was one of my first true awakenings. I felt so much deep information was coming to me and I went within to try and understand it. I had many aches and pains, but I didn't understand then what being and empath was or how to protect myself from the worlds suffering or others pain. I began seeking for something to pacify my pain, anguish and feelings of being alone and I tried many things such as sex, alcohol, drugs and rebellion. I became pregnant at sixteen and as her life began I felt mine was ending in some ways. My parents made me skip a year of High School, which worked out because I had taken extra classes in Summer school, so I went back and graduated with my regular graduating class, then I married. Graduating was a good thing, marrying wasn't. I stand firm on the fact, that there are plenty of good men out there that would gladly marry a woman with a child, you don't have to marry your child's Father, they aren't always the best choice, real Father or not. I almost instantly became pregnant again and then shortly after that we divorced.
Between this marriage and my next, I had hard times. I lost custody of my two daughters when they were very young and this hurt me terribly. My trust in people once again was put to the test and they won. I became bitter and angry with SpiritGod and I wasn't sure what to believe anymore. At times I wanted to end my life and I didn't always care about myself. I tried alcohol, drugs and sex to pacify the pain and I didn't want to kill myself, but I didn't care if I lived anymore. It was difficult for me to keep a job and my self esteem was very low. My own family judged me and weren't supportive and rarely were in my life. My spirit had been damaged and I wasn't sure what to do about it anymore. I tried to live for my daughters, just to see their beautiful little faces kept me going. I was manipulated by others and treated badly and I just let it happen much of the time. I didn't know then about my own Inner Power and how to use it.
One day as I was driving home from my job as an" In Home Care Nursing Assistant," I began to cry about my situation. I saw many trees as I was driving and I decided I would just let go of the steering wheel and let the car run into the next tree. I cried and cried, because this wasn't really what I wanted to do, but I felt my life was a mess and I didn't have answers. I felt even God had turned his back on me. It was then I heard a voice, loud and clear, say to me, "God hasn't turned away from you dear one, he's always been here, you just didn't feel him anymore because of your pain, its not time for you to come home, you still have much to do there and we'll help you." I was stunned and I pulled off the road and sat there a long time just crying. I knew I had been given another chance. I wiped away my tears and drove on and the next day I changed my life.
Later, I met a wonderful Navy man and we married and had a son. My life was finally doing better, in my early twenties and suddenly, one morning without warning I woke and I had lost the urge to live. I have no idea why or what happened when I was sleeping, but I began writing a letter saying I was going to kill myself and to please take care of my children when my husband found me. I was taken to a doctor and they admitted me in the hospital and for weeks I was given intense therapy. Again, I believe this was another awakening, this time, a huge one. I felt as if in the night I had had a massive upload (or download) of information given to me. It was there, but it wasn't yet accessible. I had lost many memories of my life. It took years to work through things to regain them. Almost ten years later I was doing better and I had finally found my path and was working dilligently on it when I became very ill. The doctors couldn't find what was wrong for sure and I put off going back, even though I was in pain and having trouble breathing. My oldest daughter and my husband told me a doctor I liked was at the Emergency Room and begged me to go, so I conceded and went. The doctor wasn't there and the one that did see me tried to convince me that everything was my imagination, because he couldn't find anything wrong. Finally, he said he would try one more test and he found a blood clot in my right lung! He said he had no idea how they missed it. I was told I could have died because it had already gone through my heart! When I got this news, I knew immediately, I had once again, been given the choice to go or stay, because I had so much to do here!! For months and months I had been working so hard to change my life again, against huge odds and now I knew this again was a turning point! I was going to live and boy was I! I may not go out and climb mountains or jump out of airplanes, but I was going to make a difference in this world and people would know who I was! I have climbed many "personal mountains" however.
There is so much more... You'll just have to wait for the book about my life to read it all and find out how I healed my life and changed it forever!! I know I found how to heal my spirit that many times had just about given up and I know that if you're reading this right now, and you feel you need help, perhaps I can also help you find your inner personal power, show you how to get in contact with your higher self and your higher purpose here in life and help you too!
So, here I am... living in the country in Virginia, USA amongst the trees and nature with my husband, six dogs and fifteen parrots, well a few are finches too. I've had a Bird Sanctuary for many years, adopting unwanted birds, mainly parrots, but I also love finches and we've had over two hundred birds before at one time. I've done animal rescue also for a long time and do what I can to help. I'm a Human, Animal and Environmental Activist and help where I can and when I can. I'm an Ecologist too! We have a great garden and I love our little homestead here. There's always plenty to do. I've been married for a long time and have three children that are all grown and six Grandchildren.
I still play my flute and make time for doing things I enjoy. Music is still an important part of my life and I use it in meditation. Animals are still some of my best friends, but I've also found people can be great too now. <smile> I'm a very open and honest person so if there's something you would like to know, please feel free to write and ask me. I will do my best in answering you.
I do my best to update this page when I can and share with you what's happening at Mystickblue and in my life. Life is a mystery, with its ups and down and there's always something going on keeping me busy, but I'm learning to pay attention to my body and my soul more everyday. In 2005-09, my body had some issues with pain and I had to take time to truly listen within on what to do. I had alot of pain and it literally took control at times. I spent time talking to Spirit and my helpers and I learned so much from the time I spent resting, in physical therapy, and gaining my strength back. I'm still not 100% but Spirit has assured me that I'm doing all right and I'm on the right path to wellness and wholeness. About the time I think everything is all right, I find another issue waiting to be solved or tackled, always the challange and puzzle it seems. I say thank you every day and remember to be grateful for everything. I have found that light always has its shadows and without us experiencing them, we would not perhaps know who we truly are. Pain, sorrow and waiting... can show us so much, if we're just willing to watch, listen and learn. I found through having to slow down and wait, that this was allowing my soul to grow. It's through our pain, mistakes and those times we find we need to turn around and try again, that we learn the most valuable lessons of all.
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Peace and bright Blessings~ ~Mystiblu~
